Hapa Cousins?

topic posted Fri, March 18, 2005 - 2:40 PM by  Lorin
Are you an oddity in your extended family? Or are all your cousins hapa too?
posted by:
Lorin
SF Bay Area
  • Re: Hapa Cousins?

    Fri, March 18, 2005 - 3:18 PM
    I think I'm the only hapa in my extended family. Cousins are either all white or all Okinawan.

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    • Re: Hapa Cousins?

      Fri, March 18, 2005 - 4:04 PM
      Uchinanchu power! I'm 1/4 Okinawan. My grandfather is an Okinawan-American Kibei, he was born in Arizona, but went back to Okinawa for school.
      • Re: Hapa Cousins?

        Fri, March 25, 2005 - 2:25 PM
        Woohoo!

        Unfortunately, I wasn't raised to fully appreciate my Okinawan-ness. I'm born and raised in CA and mom (who is all Okinawan) decided to take on the all-American middle-class housewife persona. Now, I wish she would have at least pushed the language onto me.

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  • Re: Hapa Cousins?

    Fri, March 18, 2005 - 4:57 PM
    I'm an oddity in my immediate family...

    My mom was previously married so my siblings are Mex, and I'm the only hapa (Chinese/Mexican).

    All of my cousins are either Chinese or Mexican, but the next generation down has some mix
    • Re: Hapa Cousins?

      Fri, March 25, 2005 - 1:55 PM
      hapa cousins galore!

      but i have one set that is chinese with some hawaiian back in there somewhere. very sad. not the part about being hawaiian. but one of my cousins got the hawaiian hair and darker skin and it freaked her out. she spent a lot of time trying to not tan too much and to straighten her hair. then later she "grew out of it". she looks all chinese now.

      oh. and i have korean and chinese cousins too.

      must be extra strange to be the mixed one in the extremely immediate family.
      • Re: Hapa Cousins?

        Fri, March 25, 2005 - 5:45 PM
        Tell me about it.

        It took me years to figure out why I didn't look like my brothers & sisters. They told me they found me in a park. It didn't help that my Dad and I were the only Asians in town (little town in Arizona).
        • Re: Hapa Cousins?

          Wed, March 30, 2005 - 10:48 PM
          My white side is all white. We definitely don't look like part of the family when we get together, except we all have the same frizzy, dark hair.

          On the Japanese side, my mom's sister also married a Navy man, so I have one hapa cousin.

          As for the next generation, I married a Filipino, so our kids will be more mixed.
  • Re: Hapa Cousins?

    Fri, April 11, 2008 - 3:08 PM
    All of my cousins on the Japanese side of my family are hapas. Oddly enough, all of my cousins on my German side are all Caucasian. Kinda odd I guess.

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